Archive for November, 2004

My son Elijah (Eli) turned 10 years old today. I now have a child in double digits. Since we were celebrating his birthday, he got to choose where we would eat, and he chose Outback Steakhouse (why did he have to choose such an expensive place?).

I can’t believe how fast these past ten years have gone. I still remember the feeling when the doctor said, “Its a boy!” He is such a blessing, and I am so thankful for him and so proud of him. Happy Birthday, Eli.

Well, the election is over, and I am relieved. I had grown weary of the campaigning, the TV ads, the talking heads on the news, etc. Actually, I was tired of it all back in September. I like Peggy Noonan’s take on the election results. I’ve included part of her column below — I would encourage you to read it in it’s entirety here.

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I actually think all elections come down to issues, to great questions that are answered vote by vote in the ballot box. But I put that wisdom aside for the fun of free association.

This is what I said: The president won re-election by a relatively healthy margin because the American people judged him to be the better man. He seemed to have the better character of the two candidates. He’d tell you what he was going to do, and why, and then he’d do it. He’d been doing that for four years. He did it in the campaign, too. He was dependable, and he was predictable. It’s nice to have a predictable president. It’s not nice in the nuclear age to have a surprising one.

Mr. Bush was not known as a sneak or a liar. We have had presidents who were known as sneaks and liars, some quite recently, but that wasn’t Mr. Bush, and I believe it was a relief to normal people. That relief was never articulated by anybody I remember hearing, but I believe it had a real if unquantifiable effect on the voters’ choice.

I think the people tended toward Mr. Bush because they saw him as a good American man, a man they know–an imperfect one with an imperfect past who turned his life around with grit and grace. That’s a very American story. It’s one we all know, and respect. There are Democrats–Chris Heinz was reportedly one, at the end–who amuse themselves referring to President Bush as a former cokehead. I don’t know about that, but I know America went through the 1970s, and America is still in recovery. When nice people hear things like “former drunk” they tend to put the internal emphasis on the word former.

The American people arguably did not pick the more interesting man in the race. Mr. Kerry strikes me as a complicated and intelligent person, and the one time I spent any time with him he seemed to be bright, and to have an interesting range of thoughts on many issues. Mr. Bush, on the other hand, does not strike me as the most interesting man in the world. That’s one of the things I love about him. I sort of have a theory that Americans don’t necessarily desire terribly interesting men as presidents. “Interesting” tends to bring with it a whole bunch of other attributes–”complicated,” “hard to figure,” “unknowable,” “startling,” even sometimes “tortured and tragic.” A lot of us are Republicans, and we just hate tortured and tragic. Or rather we like it in our plays and novels and TV characters and even in our friends. But not in the guy with his finger on the button.

I think Mr. Bush, the better man in terms of character, was also the more normal man. And we like normal. He loves sports and business and politics, and speaks their language. Normal. His wife is important to him, and his kids seem a bit of a mystery to him, and perhaps even to some degree intimidating. Normal. He thinks if bad guys attack New York City and the Pentagon, we go after them and kill them–normal. He thinks marriage is between a man and a woman–normal. He thinks if Baptist preachers in a suburb of Louisville have an after-school plan that has an excellent record of turning kids from juvenile delinquency to thinking about college, those Baptist preachers should be helped and encouraged every way we can, and it has nothing to do with “church and state.” Normal. He thinks if there’s an old plaque bearing the Ten Commandments on the wall of the courthouse you should leave it alone–it can’t hurt, and it might help. Normal.

Finally, you look at President Bush, and you can tell he’s not going to change much anymore. He’s 58 and he’s going to stay who he is. He is not emotionally or intellectually labile or subject to great swings–he’s not going to shock us and announce tomorrow that, on reconsideration, Osama had a point, or he actually doesn’t like Jesus. He’s not going to say tax increases are good. He’s not going to say we need more regulation of small businesses. He liked to brag sometimes in the campaign “You know who I am–I say what I mean and I mean what I say.” Actually, it wasn’t bragging, for it was true.

Some liberals, misunderstanding Mr. Bush’s support, think that in the red states they think Bush is a god. They do not. They do not think he is perfect; they do not think he is Pericles; they do not think he has the subtlest political mind since Harry Hopkins (if Hopkins was subtle–I forget). They just like him, and respect him. Some love him, but they all make teasing jokes about him. This is a man whose very White House called its political strategy shop “strategery.” The American people are in their own way fiercely sophisticated. They know the history of second terms: woe and error. They expect Mr. Bush to make mistakes. But they don’t expect him to make amazing out-of-character mistakes. They expect him to make George Bush-type mistakes. They can live with that.
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